“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.” ~ Steve Jobs
As an empath, prior to entering the work world, I never really fit in like “normal” people. I remember feeling that once I graduated from college with a good degree it would happen, I would find the groove of the “normal” people and figure out how to do life the way other people did.
Well, that didn’t happen. For a brief period after college, I worked a job way beneath my skill level (it was a recession) and dated a guy and pretended I was normal. I suppose like many other people I was working a job that was sufficient. Meaning, I got the job–they hired me, I could perform the tasks to a satisfactory level, and they paid me enough for me to have a life.
It didn’t take long before I began to feel the disgruntled stirrings of “is this all there is?” It began as an unsettled feeling of “I am pretty sure there is something else I should be doing right now?”
Most empaths begin questioning their jobs or careers in their late 20s or early 30s. It is never too late to find a satisfying way to create income.
It is common for empaths to feel burnt out or even shut down if they don’t feel their work is serving a greater purpose. The idea of a purpose can feel a little daunting or grandiose.
It can feel lighter to begin to identify with that inner genius. Our natural gifts can often be overlooked and downplayed. However if purpose feels too big, our gift(s) can point the way to a business, career, or journey that can quiet that restless voice.
In our modern culture, there can be a general apathy for the idea of purpose. We can feel too cool for purpose or hope. Cynicism is a tool we use to outsmart disappointment and heartbreak.
Purpose can bring up feelings of fear. Fear we will fail, fear we won’t, fear of the responsibility we feel to carry out our purpose.
We get stuck in the rat race – working hard at a job we may or may not enjoy to pay for the life we want. Purpose can make us feel self-indulgent. Wanting a job or career that fulfills us, who do we think we are? It takes time to sort out the message of our purpose and how we can best fulfill it.
Another way to tackle finding satisfaction from your work is to begin by looking at how empaths look at the world and compare that worldview with your current work environment, does it align and serve this worldview? If not, start here, begin the search here instead of purpose.
Keeping in mind that I will be using generalizations and not all empaths have the same needs and there will always be exceptions, here is an model work environment for empaths.
Practically speaking, it is best if the work is something you truly love to do. Empaths’ sensitive systems will degrade and breakdown creating physical and/or mental illness if we don’t take proper care of it with good environments.
Here are some career recommendations and cautions from Dr. Judith Orloff, MD and empath expert.
Editor, Writer, small business owner, healing careers, lawyers, architects, artists, actors, independent electricians and plumbers, forest rangers, landscape designers, gardeners
Careers to avoid:
Sales, customer service, retail, public relations, politics, executives managing large teams, and trial attorneys.
These jobs expend too much energy and create too much drama for most empath to enjoy.
If anyone finds themselves at a point where their work is sucking more energy than it ever gives back, don’t be afraid to rethink your career or vocation.
Don’t let how much time or effort changing your career will require deter you from pursuing your dreams, the time will go by anyway.
You owe it to yourself to seek that which will fulfill you. If you are moving towards your dreams, your soul will feel alive. When your soul is fed with mindful work, life becomes a much richer and deeper canvas. Engage your Heart, Ignite your Spirit!
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Laura Rowe is an Intuitive Strategist & Spiritual Teacher at The Vital Spirit. Living in Portland, Oregon, Laura founded The Vital Spirit, an entity that seeks to be an instrument in the ongoing shift in human consciousness. She has a background in business operations, a master’s degree in organizational management, and she currently serves empaths and lightworkers who are living their Light in their livelihoods, relationships, and communities.